Summary of Procedure for Marriage In Islam

Islam has given a clear concept about the way of marriage based on the Qur'an and Sunnah Sahih. In this opportunity the editor seeks to present a brief and necessary. The Procedure or A series of Marriage in Islam is as follows:

I. A Muslim who would marry a Muslim he should woo in advance, because it is possible he was the groom by others, in this case Islam forbids a Muslim woman who was the groom proposed by others (Agreed upon him). In khitbah Sunnah see the face that will groom (HR: [authentic] Ahmad, Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi No. 1093 and Darimi).

II.In aqad marriage there are some terms and obligations that must be met:
     a. The presence of both consensual bride.
     b. The existence of Ijab qabul.
     c. The existence of Mahar.
     d. The existence of Guardian.
     e. Presence of witnesses.

And according to the sunnah before marriage held aqad first sermon called Khutbatun Marriage or Khutbatul lavatory. 

III. Walimatul 'urusy obligatory and be simple and in walimah should be invited to the poor. Rasululloh sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said about inviting the rich just means the food is bad-bad food.

     Words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, meaning: "The worst food is the food in which only invites walimah rich people just to eat, while the poor are not invited. Those who did not attend the invitation walimah, then he rebelling against Allah and His Messenger ". (Reported: [Sahih] Muslim 4:154 and 7:262 Bayhaqi from Abu Hurayrah).

As an important note should be invited to the righteous people, rich or poor, because there are words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, meaning: "Do not associate it with the believers and do not eat your food, but people who are god-fearing ". (HR: [sahih] Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi, Ahmad Hakim 4:128 and 3:38 from Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri).